A Veteran’s Lifelong Commitment to Honor and Remember
In Rockford, Illinois, a Vietnam War veteran is making it his mission to ensure that no soldier’s sacrifice goes unnoticed. Nick Parnello, now a dedicated advocate for veterans, has spent decades honoring the service of those who have fought for the country.
Parnello enlisted in the U.S. Army at the age of 20 in 1967. He was deployed to Vietnam in 1968 and served for two years before returning home. His decision to join the military was deeply influenced by his father, who had served in World War II. “He told me, ‘You’ll enjoy these freedoms. So, when it’s your time, you should honor and serve this country,’” Parnello recalls. That message stayed with him throughout his life.
Upon returning from Vietnam, Parnello felt a strong responsibility to honor the sacrifices of fellow veterans. One of the most memorable moments from his time in the service was a night spent with a fellow soldier named Joey Falzone. The two sat together all night until dawn, sharing stories and reflecting on their experiences. During that time, they made a promise: if they both survived, they would meet for a steak dinner at Marias. They kept that promise in 1980, and that moment became the foundation for what would grow into Rockford’s chapter of VietNow.
VietNow started as a small group of veterans who met once a month. Over the years, the group expanded from just a few members to around 12 to 15 people. The organization continued to thrive for 36 years, thanks in large part to Parnello’s leadership and dedication.
Parnello’s work extends beyond just supporting veterans. He is also committed to educating younger generations about the importance of freedom and the cost of maintaining it. He is involved in several organizations, including VietNow and the Veterans Honor Society. Additionally, he has played a key role in creating memorials in the area, such as the L.Z. Peace Memorial.
When Parnello returned from Vietnam, he described a sense of relief that lifted off his shoulders. “My dad told me when he came home from World War II, he kissed the ground, and I did the same thing,” he said. That simple act of gratitude symbolized his deep appreciation for the opportunity to return home.
Marine veteran Terry Coffman, who knows Parnello well, speaks highly of his impact on the community. “He’s got a heart of gold. He really cares about veterans, and on the other side, he will drive you absolutely crazy,” Coffman said. Parnello’s personality, while sometimes challenging, is undeniably passionate and driven.
Another initiative that Parnello supports is Operation Fallen Flags, which includes a poetry contest aimed at inspiring young students. Each year, a student from Harlem High School who writes a poem about the American flag can win a $500 scholarship. This program not only encourages creativity but also fosters a deeper understanding of patriotism and national pride.
Through his many efforts, Parnello continues to make a lasting impact on his community. His story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of remembering those who have served and ensuring that their sacrifices are never forgotten.
