She Canceled the Wedding. He Went on the Honeymoon Instead. (Exclusive)

She Canceled the Wedding. He Went on the Honeymoon Instead. (Exclusive)

Tobi Elder was scheduled to get married on May 9 in Hawaii.

  • Tobi Elder was scheduled to get married to her fiancé on May 9 in Hawaii, followed by a tropical honeymoon.
  • However, merely 36 hours prior to their departure, the relationship abruptly came to an end.
  • In spite of the discomfort, Tobi took a brave stand: she would embark on the journey solo.

Tobi Elder
was eager to exchange vows with her future spouse on May 9 in Hawaii, followed by their ideal honeymoon. Originally, they intended to marry in Denver; however, after getting a bonus at work, Tobi opted to spend some extra money on an extravagant destination wedding instead.

However, merely 36 hours prior to their departure, the relationship suddenly crumbled — leaving the individual from Omaha, Nebraska, deeply hurt. Nevertheless, even after this emotional setback, Tobi chose to make a daring move: she decided to embark on the journey solo.

“She reveals exclusively, ‘Everything was prepaid.’ At first, I considered cancelling some arrangements — those are typically activities couples enjoy together,’” she explains. Thinking I would forfeit all the payments, I was pleasantly surprised when everybody was incredibly accommodating. They provided refunds for me. People there were exceptionally nice about it.”

On the travel day, Tobi mentions that she shed tears throughout the whole flight. The cabin crew attempted to console her with treats and regular check-ups. “It turned out to be somewhat humorous,” she recalls.


However, everything altered as soon as she touched down — all because of an unforeseen message.

She remembers her 68-year-old father, Robert, texting her saying, “Dear, I’m heading over. I didn’t want you to be there by yourself.” He informed her, “I won’t make it till Friday,” which coincidentally was supposed to be her wedding day. Thus, she decided, “Alright, I just need to endure being solo for these next couple of days.”

Even though she was eager to meet up with him, Tobi worried about her father undertaking the lengthy trip.

He struggles with his weight and diabetes and recently had a toe amputated. “I told him, ‘Dad, you can’t stay seated for that long — some of these flights are six hours!'” she explains. However, Robert remained steadfast. “He simply replied, ‘I’m coming regardless,'” she adds.

Upon his arrival in Hawaii, specifically on the island of O‘ahu, Tobi came to meet him at the airport. As she observed him anxiously walking back and forth outside the terminal, trying to find her, she couldn’t stop herself from laughing.

“She recounts, ‘I had the window rolled down and was shouting, “Dad, I’m right here!” ‘”

In that moment, she pulled out her phone and started recording, planning to show him the footage later. But she never got around to it and eventually decided to post the clip on
TikTok
.

“When your heartbreak hits during what should have been your honeymoon in Hawaii, your father travels 2,500 miles just to keep you company,” she noted in the on-screen message.

Back then, she didn’t pay it much mind; all she wanted was to demonstrate how adorable her father is. However, the video soon started gaining popularity.

Since then, it has garnered over 5.5 million views and accumulated more than 2,200 comments.

One comment stated, ‘You narrowly avoided trouble and hit the jackpot in life,’.

” dads of this kind are the greatest,” another user commented.

Another person added: “Don’t know you personally, but I’m proud of you for going regardless, and glad your dad accompanied you.”

Talking to , Tobi mentions that the reaction she received online profoundly affected her, particularly the remarks made by other women.

I feel empathy for all sorts of things, but reading messages from women who say ‘I lost my father’ or ‘I never had a father’ brought tears to my eyes,” Tobi explains. “I am incredibly fortunate to still have mine.

My father is a contractor,” she mentions. “He puts in a lot of effort to make ends meet — he constructs decks and renovates houses. Technically, he should have stopped working by now, but he persists. He was attempting to rearrange his schedule that week simply so he could attend.


Reflecting on the journey, Tobi mentions that her highlight was touring Pearl Harbor, a site her father often discussed over the past two decades.

“She mentions that witnessing the happiness and affection in his gaze was what alleviated her suffering.”

I believe every situation has an upside, including those that cause pain,” she states. “This occurred with me, yet it allowed my father to experience one of his lifelong wishes—a once-in-a-lifetime event. Plus, he was able to stand beside me during this time. Such moments are invaluable; they’re memories etched in our hearts forever. His presence was solely to assist me, and such encouragement will stay with me indefinitely.

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