July 23, Pakistan — Renowned actor Asma Abbas recently expressed her forward-thinking perspectives on the role of women during an interview on Good Morning Pakistan. She was joined by her youngest daughter-in-law, Sameen Ahmed, as they explored topics such as family dynamics, duties, and female empowerment in a special segment featuring a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Asma’s son Ahmed got married to Sameen earlier this year.
During the segment, Asma highlighted the importance of education and mentioned her encouragement for all her daughters-in-law to pursue work. “They have obtained their degrees, and these should not be wasted,” she said. Her message resonated in a society where women are typically expected to abandon their careers after getting married. She firmly believes that women should have the opportunity to develop both personally and professionally.
Asma mentioned that her other two daughters-in-law are also employed and handle household tasks. She confidently stated, “What would they do by staying at home? We have domestic help.” Her remarks reinforced the notion that women can successfully manage both family and professional life without being restricted to only domestic responsibilities. Her comment demonstrated a rare, encouraging perspective typically seen in traditional families.
Sameen also commended her in-laws for their kindness and empathy. She recounted how she was received warmly even though she woke up late on her first day, challenging the common perception of harsh treatment from in-laws. Asma, smiling, added, “It makes me think of Zara, who also enjoys her sleep,” bringing a humorous touch for the audience.
Interestingly, Asma mentioned that she likes watching women get dressed and head to work in the morning, admiring their self-assurance and vigor. Her opinions were regarded by many as supportive and invigorating, presenting a fresh perspective on women’s roles within Pakistani homes. However, some viewers voiced worries, thinking that a woman’s decision to work should be private.
Responses online were varied. Several commended Asma for challenging norms and encouraging autonomy for women, whereas some others questioned her for appearing to impose decisions on her daughters-in-law. Still, her presence initiated a significant discussion regarding women’s right to decide their own course—whether in professional settings or within the household.
